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Any leadership starts with self-leadership. And that's where this newsletter starts too. Week by week, I'll share a small, practical step to help you strengthen your emotional intelligence so you can lead through chaos with more focus, calm, and clarity.
Leading Others “Why does this keep happening? I’ve explained it three times, and it’s still not done right. Now I have to talk to them again...” Meanwhile, down the hall: “I’m dreading this meeting. They always seem rushed and upset with me.” Same meeting. Same energy drain. Different reasons. First, a quick check-in: Last week I committed to three morning walks as part of my 10% energy improvement. Result: only one happened in the morning, but I walked mid-morning or in the afternoon...
Practice Lab From the Toolkit The 1-Minute Reset "Wow, that meeting was tiring!" Sound familiar? We know how to recharge almost everything else in our lives. One Idea: Charging Your Inner Battery Every day, I charge my phone, sometimes twice a day. My laptop stays plugged in so I can work. I charge my watch, even my car. Yet for years, I had no system for recharging my own energy. A few years back, with 5 a.m. calls and workdays running until 6 p.m., I needed to figure out how to sustain my...
Strategic Reset Leading Forward See things clearly & kindly "I don't even remember what happened last month. Things have been so crazy busy, and I feel so behind." One Idea: Balanced Check In As the end of the month approaches, I tend to feel both dread and excitement. I feel dread when my brain fixates on everything I haven't done yet: "There's so little time. Why does it go by so fast?!" In that moment, I'm trapped in my brain's negativity bias, which overemphasizes anything that isn't the...